I am sick and tired of social media!

by Michael VanDervort on July 25, 2010 · 52 comments

Over the Edge
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On the edge

Are you feeling it yet?  That creeping feeling of discontent, that sense of things being not quite the same as they used to be when you first started, that nagging lack of fulfillment?

No, I am not talking about your job, although current research shows that 32% of employers are concerned about losing their high performing workers, and 33% of workers say they will be job shopping  when the economy turns around.

I am talking about social media fatigue in the HR community.

Social Media Fatigue

A lot of my friends have been talking about their feelings on using social media.    Twitter isn’t the same.  Facebook is boring and useless, and everyone is sick of Farmville invites.   It is so bad, people are even starting blogs to discuss the  idea of social media going bust.

The discussion of social media fatigue has been going on for a while.   Here is a time line if you care to see what was being said in 20072008, 2009, 2009, and   2009,.

I don’t think social media is going away.   I think  it is much more likely that we are entering a period of “same old, same old” (Dalen and Palshaugen)

Facebook  just got to 500  million members. They are releasing a movie about  Zuckerberg.   That is pretty mainstream.

Early Adopter Fatigue

I joined Twitter in 2007, and hung out with early adopter geeks from Silicon Valley.   Twitter was their darling for about 6 months.  Then normal adopters showed up, and MLM zombies, and Brands.   The Silicon Valley early adopters fled to places like Identi.ca, Plurk, and FriendFeed.  I think we are seeing the same thing take place amongst early adopters in the HR space now.  Some users are tired, and may leave. Others are taking a break.  And some of us are adapting our place in the space, moving from a social play/party environment to something more lucrative and profitable.

Social media fatigue isn’t new.  It isn’t a trend.  It is a part of the evolution of the medium.    You can throw in the towel, or you can go along for the ride, or you can adapt.  I plan to adapt.

Stay smart. Stay engaged.  Stay thirsty, my friends!

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1 MikeVanDervort July 25, 2010 at 1:02 pm

[New Post at The Human Race Horses] I am sick and tired of social media! http://www.thehumanracehorses.com/2010/0...

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2 mistressmia July 25, 2010 at 1:06 pm

@MikeVanDervort what hurts me is that people that listened to me & created a real platform start wanting a bastardized version.

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3 MikeVanDervort July 25, 2010 at 1:07 pm

@mistressmia i know what you mean

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4 mistressmia July 25, 2010 at 1:13 pm

@MikeVanDervort “Hell no, I won’t go” I will not do it. It takes 6 months to build a genuine channel and anything less is a lie!

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5 Alicia Arenas (@AliciaSanera) July 25, 2010 at 12:31 pm

I’m so glad you wrote this post Mike. It will be interesting to see what the next evolution is for us.

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6 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 1:02 pm

[New Post at The Human Race Horses] I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/ae7qEY

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7 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 1:03 pm

on HRH: I am sick and tired of social media! http://goo.gl/fb/fwmMJ #socialmedia #facebook #friendfeed

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8 Liz Strauss July 25, 2010 at 1:10 pm

@MikeVanDervort is sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://is.gd/dGRbv

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9 John Jorgensen July 25, 2010 at 1:15 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort: [New Post at The Human Race Horses] I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/ae7qEY

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10 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 1:18 pm

RT @lizstrauss: @MikeVanDervort is sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://is.gd/dGRbv

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11 Tracy Tran July 25, 2010 at 1:23 pm

I am sick and tired of social media! http://is.gd/dGSZ6

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12 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 1:25 pm

@Sexythinker I am s sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://is.gd/dGRbv #hr #smee #shrm #prscamp #fb #in

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13 Dave Ryan July 25, 2010 at 1:33 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort: on HRH: I am sick and tired of social media! http://goo.gl/fb/fwmMJ #socialmedia #facebook #friendfeed

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14 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 3:19 pm

I am s sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://is.gd/dGRbv #hr #smee #shrm

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15 Erick Taft, SPHR July 25, 2010 at 3:21 pm

Reading RT @MikeVanDervort: I am s sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://is.gd/dGRbv #hr #smee #shrm

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16 Laura Bergells July 25, 2010 at 3:34 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort: I am s sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://is.gd/dGRbv

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17 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 5:38 pm
18 Michael VanDervort July 25, 2010 at 5:39 pm

I am so sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://ping.fm/axJbt

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19 Steve Urquhart 【ツ】 July 25, 2010 at 5:40 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort Good stuff on "social media fatigue" … Stay smart. Stay engaged. Stay thirsty, my friends! http://icio.us/ytisuh

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20 Gary's Shoes (MWC) July 25, 2010 at 5:45 pm

"I am sick & tired of social media!" http://bit.ly/donlNM He doesn't speak 4 me!

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21 Paul Hebert July 25, 2010 at 5:46 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort I am so sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://ping.fm/axJbt < amen brother

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22 Social Media Bust July 25, 2010 at 5:47 pm

RT @incentintel: RT @MikeVanDervort I am so sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://ping.fm/axJbt < amen brother – The coming trend.

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23 Laura Schroeder July 25, 2010 at 6:41 pm

RT @incentintel: RT @MikeVanDervort I am so sick and tired of social media! Are you? http://ping.fm/axJbt < amen brother

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24 Lance Haun
Twitter:
July 25, 2010 at 11:01 pm

I wonder if part of the fatigue is seeing SM growth as some sort of diminishing influence? Like, something is cool while there are a small number of people are involved but as soon as the masses adopt it, they want to find something else to be early adopters of?

It’s like when I started listening to Dave Matthews Band in the mid 90′s and it was cool and then the fans turned into loser frat guys with popped collars. Do you start to hate the music because of who else is a fan or do you just deal with it and get over it?

It is your decision.

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25 Michael VanDervort
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 9:07 pm

@Lance

I think it is exactly that. The cool kids get bored just as “the latest thing” becomes the current fashion trend. They are onto the next things, just like your prototypical Silicon Valley Geek or Indie rock fan. Who is more exciting this year, Vampire Weekend or the Kings of Leon?

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26 Global Recruitment July 26, 2010 at 12:57 am

I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/d9FuX1

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27 Eric B. Meyer July 26, 2010 at 1:15 am

Are you suffering from social media fatigue? http://j.mp/cjOdVA (h/t @MikeVandervort)

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28 Kim Urban July 26, 2010 at 1:25 am

RT @Eric_B_Meyer: Are you suffering from social media fatigue? http://j.mp/cjOdVA (h/t @MikeVandervort) #hr

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29 Paul Hebert
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 7:37 am

What follows is the comment I put on the blog:
socialmediabust (http://socialmediabust.com/) and thought it was appropriate to but here as well. Thanks Mike for posting – you picked up a lot of what I was feeling during our call on Saturday.

It’s like if you like ice cream. And then you crave it. Then you get it and you have the first bowl and it’s great. And it’s so great you have to have another, and that’s still pretty darn good so you have another. And that’s still okay then you have another? Then it starts to make you feel sick, but then you go to a friends house and their having ice cream and you don’t want to be rude so you have some they offer you.

Then you go to work and it’s someone’s birthday and they have ice cream for them so you have to have some more. Then you go home and you’re hungry but all you have is ice cream so that’s what you have.

Soon all you’re eating is ice cream – and you now hate it. But all your friends have just discovered ice cream and that’s all they talk about is ice cream.

Soon all you can think about is closing the garage door, starting the car and putting on an old Sultans of Swing cd….

That’s how I feel about social media right now.

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30 akaBruno July 26, 2010 at 8:02 pm

Isn’t this just diminishing marginal utility?

Because barriers to entry are small, is this fatigue really a problem of differentiating good from bad social media as more entrants enter?

I’ve been thinking about this since the Will Leitch-Buzz Bissinger throwdown on Bob Costas live a few years back. Certainly, Buzz painted all blogs with a broad brush, but there was a reason Deadspin became a popular destination.

That being said, shouldn’t the creme rise to the top, so to speak? Shouldn’t we be able to separate the wheat from the chaff? How inefficient is the information market that prevents the reader from distinguishing the poser/pretender from the real deal?

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31 Michael VanDervort
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 8:58 pm

@Matt

I think there are definitely aspects of diminishing returns and marginal utility. I also think that to a certain extent, the excitement and rush of new friends and relationships wears off after a while. I also think that most people already know how to separate and retain what is important to them. (wheat and chaff)

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32 Michael VanDervort
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 9:05 pm

@Paul

Dude, put down the banana split and back away from the ledge. You can get your social media for nothing and your check….well it is in the mail….(with malaprops to the Sultans of Swing!)

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33 working girl July 26, 2010 at 8:26 am

I think social media serves two roles – one is inward facing (i.e., who am I?) and the other is outward facing (i.e., who are you?). It’s more valuable when used to share real ideas. I wrote a blog post about this as well (http://ls-workgirl.blogspot.com/2009/06/i-finally-get-it.html) although my perspective is a bit different since I wasn’t one of the early adopters.

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34 Michael VanDervort
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 9:01 pm

@workinggirl I agree with your comment about the dual role of social media. I will be reading your blog post right now!

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35 Paul Smith July 26, 2010 at 10:35 am

I plan to adapt….RT @MikeVanDervort: I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/axBfyU

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36 Michael Carty July 26, 2010 at 10:42 am

Nice post – latest annual outbreak of "social media fatigue"! #hrblogs #connectinghr #hr RT @MikeVanDervort: http://bit.ly/axBfyU

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37 Michael VanDervort
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 8:58 pm

Thank you Michael

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38 Trish McFarlane July 26, 2010 at 11:10 am

@mikevandervort is "Sick & Tired of Social Media" today on his blog. Are you? Weigh in. http://ht.ly/2gvxE #HR #SocialMedia

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39 Steve Browne July 26, 2010 at 12:17 pm

Suffering from Social Media "fatigue" ?? Then check out this very grounded post from @MikeVanDervort – http://bit.ly/9pHGIN #HR

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40 Dena B. Calo, Esq. July 26, 2010 at 12:19 pm

RT @sbrownehr: Suffering from Social Media "fatigue" ?? Then check out this very grounded post from @MikeVanDervort – http://bit.ly/9pHGIN #HR

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41 Michael VanDervort July 26, 2010 at 4:01 pm

@SBWorkforce Suffering from Social Media "fatigue" ? Then check out this very grounded post from @MikeVanDervort – http://bit.ly/9pHGIN #HR

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42 Kelly Dingee July 26, 2010 at 4:07 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/9j2A8c

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43 Patti Breckenridge July 26, 2010 at 4:20 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort: @SBWorkforce Suffering from Social Media "fatigue" ? Then check out this very grounded post from @MikeVanDervort – http://bit.ly/9pHGIN #HR

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44 Michael VanDervort July 26, 2010 at 6:31 pm

Pretty well read post: Ok, I'll say it. I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/axBfyU #hr #shrm

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45 Joni Thomas Doolin July 26, 2010 at 6:40 pm

But I would miss you :-) RT @MikeVanDervort: Ok, I'll say it. I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/axBfyU #hr #shrm

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46 Frank Zupan July 26, 2010 at 9:03 pm

Mike-Thanks for posting your thoughts which prompted me to think through my brief exposure (< 1 year) to "social media". I've decided that I'm not sick of social media. I'm sick of two-bit imbeciles trying to turn it and themselves into something that they're not.

I'm somewhat sick of people that I've never met asking to be my "friend" on Facebook. Have they ever had a friend? In their entire life?

I'm sorta sick of people with thousands of "followers" considering themselves "leaders" of anything. I've met them, they ain't leaders. Enough said.

I'm kinda sick of people with 3 years of paid work experience being considered "experts", "gurus", or "superstars" at anything. Hey, just make them your keynote speaker at the next unconference, and we'll package it up big time.

I'm pretty sick of the celebrities being created through nothing more than a two letter mantra which the sorry masses have come to live by…"RT"

I'm not sick of social media at all. I'm pretty sure I'm sick of most of the idiots using social media.

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47 Michael VanDervort
Twitter:
July 26, 2010 at 9:13 pm

@Frank

Are you sure you don’t want to come right and say how you really feel?

Can I get an amen?

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48 Mike Lane July 27, 2010 at 5:06 am

I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/9j2A8c

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49 Rainbowchazer July 28, 2010 at 9:48 pm

RT @recruitmentjob: I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/d9FuX1

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50 Michael VanDervort July 28, 2010 at 10:57 pm

I am sick and tired of social media! http://ff.im/-ortKR

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51 Kim Roden July 28, 2010 at 11:07 pm

Yep, I have my days! RT @MikeVanDervort: I am sick and tired of social media! http://ff.im/-ortKR

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52 Social Media Bust August 4, 2010 at 3:02 pm

RT @MikeVanDervort: I am sick and tired of social media! http://bit.ly/axBfyU

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